"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Not too big, but thought it was strange. I tried calling this girl I've been talking to for about a month last night around 11. She didn't answer so I hung up. Within 30 minutes she called me back. Sounded tired and told me that she was lying in bed. I just let her go and told her that I would call her back tomorrow. I just thought it was weird that she wanted to let me know what she was doing. She lives at home, so I know she wasn't out ****ing like some of you will suggest.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Originally posted by Disco
Not too big, but thought it was strange. I tried calling this girl I've been talking to for about a month last night around 11. She didn't answer so I hung up. Within 30 minutes she called me back. Sounded tired and told me that she was lying in bed. I just let her go and told her that I would call her back tomorrow. I just thought it was weird that she wanted to let me know what she was doing. She lives at home, so I know she wasn't out ****ing like some of you will suggest.
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what was the moral of this story?

- after she didn't answer, you shouldn't have answered your phone. it shows you are readily available, while she, by comparison is not.

- why were you calling her again? i hope it was to set up a date and nothing else.

- don't call her back tomorrow like you said you would.
 
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who cares if you look too available or not? What mattered was you should've set up a date when having a chance talking with her.
 
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I don't know, but it did sound like an invitation for a late night bang ...

sure, that would have made you too available, made her control you by choosing the time she wanted to have sex, blah, blah ... but then again, when compared to a night spent alone, the late night bang sounds a lot better
 
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