"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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A few things ive learnt to laugh at ..

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So this may entertain a few people

Girl I was seeing sends me an e-mail - tells me she cant afford to ay me back the cash she owes me - lent her a bit agggeeesss ago
Funny story - sends it from her new iphone 5s.... Im smelling gold digger/WTF

Second

Has anyone noticed how in a rush to be in relationships people are nowdays ? both guys and girls - generally it seems as if they are royally afraid of being alone (18-25 year olds mostly , sometimes even older!)

Am I the idiot or is what im seeing legitamately disturbing ?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Yes, you've been had. Do what you want with that.

As for the rush for relationships, so much social media and instantaneous contact would seem to affect that. It wasn't that long ago that landline phones and letters were about the only way to connect outside face-to-face meetings.
 

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Tictac said:
Yes, you've been had. Do what you want with that.

As for the rush for relationships, so much social media and instantaneous contact would seem to affect that. It wasn't that long ago that landline phones and letters were about the only way to connect outside face-to-face meetings.
The human race is doing so well...
Its amazing some make it past puberty anymore
 

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It's only when you truly, and honestly stop giving a shıt about what other people do or think that you truly become mentally liberated and happy. Everyone is so hung up on how things look on the outside that's it's ridiculous. When you dig to the inside, it's misery across the board.

LOL They can keep it.
 
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