Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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A few things ive learnt to laugh at ..

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So this may entertain a few people

Girl I was seeing sends me an e-mail - tells me she cant afford to ay me back the cash she owes me - lent her a bit agggeeesss ago
Funny story - sends it from her new iphone 5s.... Im smelling gold digger/WTF

Second

Has anyone noticed how in a rush to be in relationships people are nowdays ? both guys and girls - generally it seems as if they are royally afraid of being alone (18-25 year olds mostly , sometimes even older!)

Am I the idiot or is what im seeing legitamately disturbing ?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Yes, you've been had. Do what you want with that.

As for the rush for relationships, so much social media and instantaneous contact would seem to affect that. It wasn't that long ago that landline phones and letters were about the only way to connect outside face-to-face meetings.
 

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Tictac said:
Yes, you've been had. Do what you want with that.

As for the rush for relationships, so much social media and instantaneous contact would seem to affect that. It wasn't that long ago that landline phones and letters were about the only way to connect outside face-to-face meetings.
The human race is doing so well...
Its amazing some make it past puberty anymore
 

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It's only when you truly, and honestly stop giving a shıt about what other people do or think that you truly become mentally liberated and happy. Everyone is so hung up on how things look on the outside that's it's ridiculous. When you dig to the inside, it's misery across the board.

LOL They can keep it.
 
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