"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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A few things ive learnt to laugh at ..

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So this may entertain a few people

Girl I was seeing sends me an e-mail - tells me she cant afford to ay me back the cash she owes me - lent her a bit agggeeesss ago
Funny story - sends it from her new iphone 5s.... Im smelling gold digger/WTF

Second

Has anyone noticed how in a rush to be in relationships people are nowdays ? both guys and girls - generally it seems as if they are royally afraid of being alone (18-25 year olds mostly , sometimes even older!)

Am I the idiot or is what im seeing legitamately disturbing ?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Yes, you've been had. Do what you want with that.

As for the rush for relationships, so much social media and instantaneous contact would seem to affect that. It wasn't that long ago that landline phones and letters were about the only way to connect outside face-to-face meetings.
 
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Tictac said:
Yes, you've been had. Do what you want with that.

As for the rush for relationships, so much social media and instantaneous contact would seem to affect that. It wasn't that long ago that landline phones and letters were about the only way to connect outside face-to-face meetings.
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The human race is doing so well...
Its amazing some make it past puberty anymore
 
VladPatton

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It's only when you truly, and honestly stop giving a shıt about what other people do or think that you truly become mentally liberated and happy. Everyone is so hung up on how things look on the outside that's it's ridiculous. When you dig to the inside, it's misery across the board.

LOL They can keep it.
 
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