"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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A few things ive learnt to laugh at ..

countwoofoolah

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So this may entertain a few people

Girl I was seeing sends me an e-mail - tells me she cant afford to ay me back the cash she owes me - lent her a bit agggeeesss ago
Funny story - sends it from her new iphone 5s.... Im smelling gold digger/WTF

Second

Has anyone noticed how in a rush to be in relationships people are nowdays ? both guys and girls - generally it seems as if they are royally afraid of being alone (18-25 year olds mostly , sometimes even older!)

Am I the idiot or is what im seeing legitamately disturbing ?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Yes, you've been had. Do what you want with that.

As for the rush for relationships, so much social media and instantaneous contact would seem to affect that. It wasn't that long ago that landline phones and letters were about the only way to connect outside face-to-face meetings.
 

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Tictac said:
Yes, you've been had. Do what you want with that.

As for the rush for relationships, so much social media and instantaneous contact would seem to affect that. It wasn't that long ago that landline phones and letters were about the only way to connect outside face-to-face meetings.
The human race is doing so well...
Its amazing some make it past puberty anymore
 

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It's only when you truly, and honestly stop giving a shıt about what other people do or think that you truly become mentally liberated and happy. Everyone is so hung up on how things look on the outside that's it's ridiculous. When you dig to the inside, it's misery across the board.

LOL They can keep it.
 
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