"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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A few scenarios I need help in

Zerix

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Let's say you're walking, alone or with friend, maybe crossing the street, or standing and waiting for the signal to cross. You look over at a car, and a chick (or multiple chicks) start flirting with you (maybe really interested) or kinda drunk already and start yelling at you (in a good way). What would you do? (I get really clueless here and at a loss of words.. so dumb)

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When a chick starts walking opposite direction of you (toward you) (on sidewalk let's say) and makes some heavy eye contact. You stop her or what? Say what? I get clueless here too :whistle:

LMS, any advice? LOL

I think I might have had another situation I was curious about, but this is main ones I guess.

Yes, I'm still AFC and not improving (or approaching) fast enough :down:
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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You are young - as you get older you will become bolder and in more control You are talking about "cold" impromptu approaches -- very difficult to be successful! You have to be confident and witty and be straightforward since time is short in these chance encounters!
 

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Practice your freestyle game. Think of things to say......not things that are mad serious......but things that will keep a convo going.

I used to be able to do that :(

Oh yeah....and you stay focused on the booty. Your main goal is to knock it out. So get in your dog mindset and go get em.

"Yo yo what up ladies....how yall doing?" Hold ya hand out like to shake theirs and kiss em on the cheek. EASY! Dont expect her to let you though....but she might if you picked the right one. Try to get a kiss from em all.

Thats how real niggaz do it! :D Of course you gotta pay attention to the body langauge to know if its a go or not. If you pull it off theyre really gonna think youre a pimp in the morning LOL.....and if it dont..hell.....**** it. No love lost Im sure. Atleast youll have something to talk about on the phone when you get their number.
 
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IPreyOnIt, he is talking about approaching strangers not acquantances!!

But he should have some prearranged statements ready - like "Yo, yo, yo, what's up ho!! At least it rhymes :rolleyes:
 

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Hahah, **** I forgot I made this thread...

Thanks for that first post LMS, understood :)

IPrey, somehow I have trouble seeing that pulled off, and would most probably hesitate on that move lol
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Scenarios means you're overthinking, and that gets you nowhere. I can't say it enough, never trust your brain. You have to be. Forget the past, don't worry about the future. Just BE. Perfectly Zen man.
 

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well on the first story sittuation I just would wave to the chicks in the car cause really it might be awhile before you get a number. and your walking and im sure there at the stoplight right? so the light turns green and thats the end of them. so I wouldnt care on that one.

the second story. if she did give you nice eye contact and a good smile and you have nothing else to do kinda look to see where shes going and if she stops go up to her and say hi. but this might creep her out though but its worth a try I suppose.
 
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