"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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A few scenarios I need help in

Zerix

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Let's say you're walking, alone or with friend, maybe crossing the street, or standing and waiting for the signal to cross. You look over at a car, and a chick (or multiple chicks) start flirting with you (maybe really interested) or kinda drunk already and start yelling at you (in a good way). What would you do? (I get really clueless here and at a loss of words.. so dumb)

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When a chick starts walking opposite direction of you (toward you) (on sidewalk let's say) and makes some heavy eye contact. You stop her or what? Say what? I get clueless here too :whistle:

LMS, any advice? LOL

I think I might have had another situation I was curious about, but this is main ones I guess.

Yes, I'm still AFC and not improving (or approaching) fast enough :down:
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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You are young - as you get older you will become bolder and in more control You are talking about "cold" impromptu approaches -- very difficult to be successful! You have to be confident and witty and be straightforward since time is short in these chance encounters!
 

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Practice your freestyle game. Think of things to say......not things that are mad serious......but things that will keep a convo going.

I used to be able to do that :(

Oh yeah....and you stay focused on the booty. Your main goal is to knock it out. So get in your dog mindset and go get em.

"Yo yo what up ladies....how yall doing?" Hold ya hand out like to shake theirs and kiss em on the cheek. EASY! Dont expect her to let you though....but she might if you picked the right one. Try to get a kiss from em all.

Thats how real niggaz do it! :D Of course you gotta pay attention to the body langauge to know if its a go or not. If you pull it off theyre really gonna think youre a pimp in the morning LOL.....and if it dont..hell.....**** it. No love lost Im sure. Atleast youll have something to talk about on the phone when you get their number.
 
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IPreyOnIt, he is talking about approaching strangers not acquantances!!

But he should have some prearranged statements ready - like "Yo, yo, yo, what's up ho!! At least it rhymes :rolleyes:
 

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Hahah, **** I forgot I made this thread...

Thanks for that first post LMS, understood :)

IPrey, somehow I have trouble seeing that pulled off, and would most probably hesitate on that move lol
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Scenarios means you're overthinking, and that gets you nowhere. I can't say it enough, never trust your brain. You have to be. Forget the past, don't worry about the future. Just BE. Perfectly Zen man.
 

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well on the first story sittuation I just would wave to the chicks in the car cause really it might be awhile before you get a number. and your walking and im sure there at the stoplight right? so the light turns green and thats the end of them. so I wouldnt care on that one.

the second story. if she did give you nice eye contact and a good smile and you have nothing else to do kinda look to see where shes going and if she stops go up to her and say hi. but this might creep her out though but its worth a try I suppose.
 
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