"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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A few scenarios I need help in

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Let's say you're walking, alone or with friend, maybe crossing the street, or standing and waiting for the signal to cross. You look over at a car, and a chick (or multiple chicks) start flirting with you (maybe really interested) or kinda drunk already and start yelling at you (in a good way). What would you do? (I get really clueless here and at a loss of words.. so dumb)

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When a chick starts walking opposite direction of you (toward you) (on sidewalk let's say) and makes some heavy eye contact. You stop her or what? Say what? I get clueless here too :whistle:

LMS, any advice? LOL

I think I might have had another situation I was curious about, but this is main ones I guess.

Yes, I'm still AFC and not improving (or approaching) fast enough :down:
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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You are young - as you get older you will become bolder and in more control You are talking about "cold" impromptu approaches -- very difficult to be successful! You have to be confident and witty and be straightforward since time is short in these chance encounters!
 
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Practice your freestyle game. Think of things to say......not things that are mad serious......but things that will keep a convo going.

I used to be able to do that :(

Oh yeah....and you stay focused on the booty. Your main goal is to knock it out. So get in your dog mindset and go get em.

"Yo yo what up ladies....how yall doing?" Hold ya hand out like to shake theirs and kiss em on the cheek. EASY! Dont expect her to let you though....but she might if you picked the right one. Try to get a kiss from em all.

Thats how real niggaz do it! :D Of course you gotta pay attention to the body langauge to know if its a go or not. If you pull it off theyre really gonna think youre a pimp in the morning LOL.....and if it dont..hell.....**** it. No love lost Im sure. Atleast youll have something to talk about on the phone when you get their number.
 
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IPreyOnIt, he is talking about approaching strangers not acquantances!!

But he should have some prearranged statements ready - like "Yo, yo, yo, what's up ho!! At least it rhymes :rolleyes:
 
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Hahah, **** I forgot I made this thread...

Thanks for that first post LMS, understood :)

IPrey, somehow I have trouble seeing that pulled off, and would most probably hesitate on that move lol
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Scenarios means you're overthinking, and that gets you nowhere. I can't say it enough, never trust your brain. You have to be. Forget the past, don't worry about the future. Just BE. Perfectly Zen man.
 
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well on the first story sittuation I just would wave to the chicks in the car cause really it might be awhile before you get a number. and your walking and im sure there at the stoplight right? so the light turns green and thats the end of them. so I wouldnt care on that one.

the second story. if she did give you nice eye contact and a good smile and you have nothing else to do kinda look to see where shes going and if she stops go up to her and say hi. but this might creep her out though but its worth a try I suppose.
 
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