"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I've been seeing this girl since Thanksgiving and She really likes me. Last night when I was at her house she told me she liked me and asked if I liked her. I didn't say anything and just kissed her. I know not to tell her you love her in the first 2 months, but what about just telling her you like her? I am also able to spend the night there, her mom doesn't car but her step-dad hates me. Would this be a good move? I don't want to have sex with her, shes still a virgin and underage.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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If the step dad hates you, then probably not. But if you have balls, then yes it would.
 

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Ummm...youre only 17 buddy, youre underage too...catch my drift?
 

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Originally posted by oakraiderz2
Ummm...youre only 17 buddy, youre underage too...catch my drift?
I know, look at the last word of my first post. My age is wrong, I'm 18 now. I don't wanna do her anyways.

Is it bad to tell her you like her if she asks you?
 

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Its not something that i would do personally. Id be prone to saying something sarcastic or C&F. Show her you like her instead of telling her. So you dont wanna get her in the sack? Whats youre goal with her then?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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