"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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A few questions.

xenten

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I've been seeing this girl since Thanksgiving and She really likes me. Last night when I was at her house she told me she liked me and asked if I liked her. I didn't say anything and just kissed her. I know not to tell her you love her in the first 2 months, but what about just telling her you like her? I am also able to spend the night there, her mom doesn't car but her step-dad hates me. Would this be a good move? I don't want to have sex with her, shes still a virgin and underage.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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If the step dad hates you, then probably not. But if you have balls, then yes it would.
 

oakraiderz2

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Ummm...youre only 17 buddy, youre underage too...catch my drift?
 

xenten

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Originally posted by oakraiderz2
Ummm...youre only 17 buddy, youre underage too...catch my drift?
I know, look at the last word of my first post. My age is wrong, I'm 18 now. I don't wanna do her anyways.

Is it bad to tell her you like her if she asks you?
 

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Its not something that i would do personally. Id be prone to saying something sarcastic or C&F. Show her you like her instead of telling her. So you dont wanna get her in the sack? Whats youre goal with her then?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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