"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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A few questions.

xenten

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I've been seeing this girl since Thanksgiving and She really likes me. Last night when I was at her house she told me she liked me and asked if I liked her. I didn't say anything and just kissed her. I know not to tell her you love her in the first 2 months, but what about just telling her you like her? I am also able to spend the night there, her mom doesn't car but her step-dad hates me. Would this be a good move? I don't want to have sex with her, shes still a virgin and underage.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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If the step dad hates you, then probably not. But if you have balls, then yes it would.
 

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Ummm...youre only 17 buddy, youre underage too...catch my drift?
 

xenten

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Originally posted by oakraiderz2
Ummm...youre only 17 buddy, youre underage too...catch my drift?
I know, look at the last word of my first post. My age is wrong, I'm 18 now. I don't wanna do her anyways.

Is it bad to tell her you like her if she asks you?
 

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Its not something that i would do personally. Id be prone to saying something sarcastic or C&F. Show her you like her instead of telling her. So you dont wanna get her in the sack? Whats youre goal with her then?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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