"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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A Few Questions...

Mister Royale

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Okay, so I've changed my mindset. I realize that pretty girls aren't gods, and I realized that life is all about having fun
But I still have a few questions...

1) How do I become more witty? Someone will say something to me and I'll come up with a witty response 5 seconds too late.I don't want to use C+F as a technique, I want to immerse it into my personality.

2)Also, I have a habit of talking fast when I want to get my word in a convo.

I had more earlier today they escape my mind now.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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IronRice

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Personally, alot of people find me funny. Even when I dont intend to be. You've got one thing right, its your personality.

Really, for me, I just try to live and think funny. Once you live and think it what else will come out of your mouth? ;)
 

08aisaac

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Well I used to talk to fast, and I just worked on slowing down. Just talk slower. There's no pressure.

And don't try and be witty, but if you want to be, then try and watch some stand up comedy. You will eventually become funny. But the less you say funny things, the more people will think it is funny when you are talking to them and crack a joke.
 

Smooth Player 056

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!. To become more witty watch street comedians and improv comedians. Also I bet there are certain situations that youve gotten into multiple times and still had no witty comment, take some time and write down witty comments for situations which u are usually in.

2. You probably speak quickly because nobody hears you. Do you have a soft voice? high voice? if you said yes to any of those you should work on speaking louder and a bit deeper. Remember confident people speak slowly not fast like an anal lube salesman.



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