"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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A Few Questions...

Mister Royale

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Okay, so I've changed my mindset. I realize that pretty girls aren't gods, and I realized that life is all about having fun
But I still have a few questions...

1) How do I become more witty? Someone will say something to me and I'll come up with a witty response 5 seconds too late.I don't want to use C+F as a technique, I want to immerse it into my personality.

2)Also, I have a habit of talking fast when I want to get my word in a convo.

I had more earlier today they escape my mind now.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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IronRice

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Personally, alot of people find me funny. Even when I dont intend to be. You've got one thing right, its your personality.

Really, for me, I just try to live and think funny. Once you live and think it what else will come out of your mouth? ;)
 

08aisaac

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Well I used to talk to fast, and I just worked on slowing down. Just talk slower. There's no pressure.

And don't try and be witty, but if you want to be, then try and watch some stand up comedy. You will eventually become funny. But the less you say funny things, the more people will think it is funny when you are talking to them and crack a joke.
 

Smooth Player 056

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!. To become more witty watch street comedians and improv comedians. Also I bet there are certain situations that youve gotten into multiple times and still had no witty comment, take some time and write down witty comments for situations which u are usually in.

2. You probably speak quickly because nobody hears you. Do you have a soft voice? high voice? if you said yes to any of those you should work on speaking louder and a bit deeper. Remember confident people speak slowly not fast like an anal lube salesman.



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