Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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A Few Questions...

Mister Royale

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Okay, so I've changed my mindset. I realize that pretty girls aren't gods, and I realized that life is all about having fun
But I still have a few questions...

1) How do I become more witty? Someone will say something to me and I'll come up with a witty response 5 seconds too late.I don't want to use C+F as a technique, I want to immerse it into my personality.

2)Also, I have a habit of talking fast when I want to get my word in a convo.

I had more earlier today they escape my mind now.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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IronRice

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Personally, alot of people find me funny. Even when I dont intend to be. You've got one thing right, its your personality.

Really, for me, I just try to live and think funny. Once you live and think it what else will come out of your mouth? ;)
 

08aisaac

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Well I used to talk to fast, and I just worked on slowing down. Just talk slower. There's no pressure.

And don't try and be witty, but if you want to be, then try and watch some stand up comedy. You will eventually become funny. But the less you say funny things, the more people will think it is funny when you are talking to them and crack a joke.
 

Smooth Player 056

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!. To become more witty watch street comedians and improv comedians. Also I bet there are certain situations that youve gotten into multiple times and still had no witty comment, take some time and write down witty comments for situations which u are usually in.

2. You probably speak quickly because nobody hears you. Do you have a soft voice? high voice? if you said yes to any of those you should work on speaking louder and a bit deeper. Remember confident people speak slowly not fast like an anal lube salesman.



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