"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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A Few Questions...

Mister Royale

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Okay, so I've changed my mindset. I realize that pretty girls aren't gods, and I realized that life is all about having fun
But I still have a few questions...

1) How do I become more witty? Someone will say something to me and I'll come up with a witty response 5 seconds too late.I don't want to use C+F as a technique, I want to immerse it into my personality.

2)Also, I have a habit of talking fast when I want to get my word in a convo.

I had more earlier today they escape my mind now.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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IronRice

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Personally, alot of people find me funny. Even when I dont intend to be. You've got one thing right, its your personality.

Really, for me, I just try to live and think funny. Once you live and think it what else will come out of your mouth? ;)
 

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Well I used to talk to fast, and I just worked on slowing down. Just talk slower. There's no pressure.

And don't try and be witty, but if you want to be, then try and watch some stand up comedy. You will eventually become funny. But the less you say funny things, the more people will think it is funny when you are talking to them and crack a joke.
 

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!. To become more witty watch street comedians and improv comedians. Also I bet there are certain situations that youve gotten into multiple times and still had no witty comment, take some time and write down witty comments for situations which u are usually in.

2. You probably speak quickly because nobody hears you. Do you have a soft voice? high voice? if you said yes to any of those you should work on speaking louder and a bit deeper. Remember confident people speak slowly not fast like an anal lube salesman.



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