"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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A few Chicks Comin Over (Answers ASAP)

werdmaster

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I have like 4 girls coming to my house tonite. There ar elike 3 guys, which works out cuz one is a UG.

What are some good things to do?
Any movie suggestions?
Beer Pong?
Wat kind of music?


MOst importantly how can I seal the deal with one of the chicks after chillin with everyone?
Shud I just kiss her or something?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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oakraiderz2

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Get some cards and play strip poker...play any game that involves stripping or something riske like that.
 

DJoneday

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give her some attention, then take it away and focus more on the group, then when things settle down a bit give her some more. Get something going where everyone is more chilled out, then go for it.
 

AC/DC

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Have something fun for you to do. Give the guys condoms.

Make sure you all have a movie to watch and a girl to be with. In the middle of the movie or whatever, take your girl out of the room, into another room, and just be like "I have a surprise for you, but I have to whisper it so no one else knows about it." Put your head real close to her face, and instead of going by her ear, stop in front of her face, smile, and be like "surprise!" and kiss her.

Pimp move, pimp night.:cool:
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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