"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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a female perspective of the "nice guy"

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Just thought this would be fun to post. The female perspective is almost EXACTLY the same as the male one. And before anyone jumps on me for posting "feminist propaganda" or whatever, yes it appears the site is extremely biased but I haven't looked at the rest. It's just interesting to see this kind of breakdown of the nice guy written by a woman.

http://www.heartless-*****es.com/rants/niceguys/niceguys.shtml
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Article just described me and my current situation.
 
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handle said:
Just thought this would be fun to post. The female perspective is almost EXACTLY the same as the male one. And before anyone jumps on me for posting "feminist propaganda" or whatever, yes it appears the site is extremely biased but I haven't looked at the rest. It's just interesting to see this kind of breakdown of the nice guy written by a woman.

http://www.heartless-*****es.com/rants/niceguys/niceguys.shtml
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Nice guys finish LAST. There is a difference between the Nice Guy and Good Guy
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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J Roc said:
Nice guys finish LAST. There is a difference between the Nice Guy and Good Guy
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Judge nismo was a nice guy and found out that nice guys don't even qualify for the f**kin' race!

Easy enough, take care of YOU before anybody else.

Stop catering to women.

Put your own f**kin' ass first.

Stop saving hoes.

You will get run over and passed up if you disobey. :box:

That's my ruling.

Case closed.
 
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