"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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a female perspective of the "nice guy"

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Just thought this would be fun to post. The female perspective is almost EXACTLY the same as the male one. And before anyone jumps on me for posting "feminist propaganda" or whatever, yes it appears the site is extremely biased but I haven't looked at the rest. It's just interesting to see this kind of breakdown of the nice guy written by a woman.

http://www.heartless-*****es.com/rants/niceguys/niceguys.shtml
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Article just described me and my current situation.
 
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handle said:
Just thought this would be fun to post. The female perspective is almost EXACTLY the same as the male one. And before anyone jumps on me for posting "feminist propaganda" or whatever, yes it appears the site is extremely biased but I haven't looked at the rest. It's just interesting to see this kind of breakdown of the nice guy written by a woman.

http://www.heartless-*****es.com/rants/niceguys/niceguys.shtml
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Nice guys finish LAST. There is a difference between the Nice Guy and Good Guy
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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J Roc said:
Nice guys finish LAST. There is a difference between the Nice Guy and Good Guy
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Judge nismo was a nice guy and found out that nice guys don't even qualify for the f**kin' race!

Easy enough, take care of YOU before anybody else.

Stop catering to women.

Put your own f**kin' ass first.

Stop saving hoes.

You will get run over and passed up if you disobey. :box:

That's my ruling.

Case closed.
 
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