"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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a female perspective of the "nice guy"

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Just thought this would be fun to post. The female perspective is almost EXACTLY the same as the male one. And before anyone jumps on me for posting "feminist propaganda" or whatever, yes it appears the site is extremely biased but I haven't looked at the rest. It's just interesting to see this kind of breakdown of the nice guy written by a woman.

http://www.heartless-*****es.com/rants/niceguys/niceguys.shtml
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Article just described me and my current situation.
 

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handle said:
Just thought this would be fun to post. The female perspective is almost EXACTLY the same as the male one. And before anyone jumps on me for posting "feminist propaganda" or whatever, yes it appears the site is extremely biased but I haven't looked at the rest. It's just interesting to see this kind of breakdown of the nice guy written by a woman.

http://www.heartless-*****es.com/rants/niceguys/niceguys.shtml
The link isn't working.
 

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Nice guys finish LAST. There is a difference between the Nice Guy and Good Guy
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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J Roc said:
Nice guys finish LAST. There is a difference between the Nice Guy and Good Guy
Judge nismo was a nice guy and found out that nice guys don't even qualify for the f**kin' race!

Easy enough, take care of YOU before anybody else.

Stop catering to women.

Put your own f**kin' ass first.

Stop saving hoes.

You will get run over and passed up if you disobey. :box:

That's my ruling.

Case closed.
 
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