"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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A female 'friend' of mine...I'm in for it now. Crap.

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I guess I'm just posting this to get it off my chest. Or because I'm not sure what the f*ck happened.

A female friend of mine, who happens to be my ex-gf's best friend...(the ex that prompted me to come here) and I were out drinking. A lot. Just bullsh*tting, hanging out as we have a million times before. This girl is a friend. Repeat, friend.

Well, we both went to her place and ended up having sex. Never been attracted to her like that. I don't have feelings for her, we just ended up in the sack for no reason. I've known this girl for like 12 years.

Neither one of said a word. It just literally straight f*cking happened. And when it was over, neither one of us said anything.

The next day she made me promise to never tell my ex.

I feel kinda guilty.

Thanks for letting me vent.
 

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I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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You feel guilty? Don't be, you did what was suppose to happen.

See you cannot cheat nature forever. Nature did not intened for a guy and a girl who have some attraction between them to sit and hang out for long periods of time with nothing to happen. You two wanted this to have happen but you needed excuse to do it by consuming alcohol.

What is done is done, what are you going to do about it?? either continue with it (fvckbuddy) or get rid of her. The biggest mistake would be to pretend it never happen and try to go back of being a friend. You will both drive each other insane.

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DJDamage said:
You feel guilty? Don't be, you did what was suppose to happen.

See you cannot cheat nature forever. Nature did not intened for a guy and a girl who have some attraction between them to sit and hang out for long periods of time with nothing to happen. You two wanted this to have happen but you needed excuse to do it by consuming alcohol.
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:up: This guy sounds like PuertoRican_Lover - he is spot on!
 
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Er,, why you feel guilty ?

You feel bad that you're going to ruin a friendship ?

Worried about what ex will think cuz you still like her ?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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guilty?

haha,

Well at least we know who the CATCHER was last night when they did it.

J/p, but dude seriously you sound like a chick man, this was supposed to happen like he said, guys and girls were not supposed to be friends, especially ones that are attracted to each other, because one or both of you have always thought about this and thats what happens and should happen.
 
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yeah, why do you even care what your EX thinks.. she's your EX. This chick is now Fair Game. Regardless if she likes it or not

Ex has something to say about it? Tough sh!t.. you can't have your cake (breaking up with me to **** other guys) and eat it too (I can't date/**** who I want) it's a give and take.

**** her again.. in the ass this time just to let her know you ment it
 
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lol if you had no feelings... shes bunk

aka don't tell anyone cause its embarassing, not because of your g/f :)
 
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There is absolutely no reason why you should regret it! Even if it was a mistake,they happen. You can't live your life worrying about stuff like that. I wish my old lady friends friends slept with me...lucky bastard.
 
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coolguy676767 said:
guilty?

haha,

Well at least we know who the CATCHER was last night when they did it.

J/p, but dude seriously you sound like a chick man, this was supposed to happen like he said, guys and girls were not supposed to be friends, especially ones that are attracted to each other, because one or both of you have always thought about this and thats what happens and should happen.
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Okay, okay, point taken, LMAO.


The only reason I feel bad is because first off, it wasn't worth it......


I'm just saying.....think about the last chick in the world you'd think you'd f*ck....then........Oh, hell.

I'm just weirded out.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Sh!t, I've been through this scenario quite a few times.

Don't feel guilty and do NOT act like it never happened. It did and both of you wanted it to happen wether you admit it or not.

She could potentially become a fvck buddy or you can just leave it all behind you and move on.

Don't worry about your ex...... Anyone is fair game after the breakup is official and final. Just depends on your own morals.. some people would see this as wrong. I don't.
 
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was she hot
 
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HB 7.......

Nothing special......

I wasn't trying to hit.

I was trying to drink.

Look, this was more of a 'get it off my chest thing'......This girl and I are FRIENDS, I never wanna take it farther than that. Neither does she, I'm sure of it.

I'm just a little shocked because she's a -very- close friend of the EX (and no, I don't still have feelings for the ex :whistle: ).

Maybe I should lay off the hard liquor and....among other things I'm not too proud of consuming that night.
 
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