"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
A DJ's weekly schedule
- Thread starter Slam_Jam
- Start date
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Egoist
Master Don Juan
Simeon
Don Juan
lmao, this is a fair question imo but that ^^^ just made me chuckle :crackup:
Monday: Climbed Mount Everest. ****ed a HB when i reached the top
Tuesday: Challenged Tyson to a boxing match. ****ed a long term FB of mine after i knocked his ass.
Wednesday: Went surfing and made sure there was a shark present, just to make it more DJ. ****ed a HB later on in the day
Thursday: Went shopping and brought this pink polo shirt.
Friday: Got a tan and plucked my eyebrows. Approached a HB in the girls toilet, **** closed her later on.
Saturday: Added a few touches of blonde to my hair, like the front part. Got sucked off later on in the day and thats about it.
Sunday: Rest day
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
4:30 am - work
1:30 pm - off work
2:00 pm - I get home and take a 30 minute nap
2:30 - I eat. relax, watch some TV and current events
3:30 - get on the net, work on my websites
5:30 - go out work a walk
6:30 - 8:00 - I work out (including breaks)
8:00: spend 15-20 minutes on sosuave
8:30: Back to working on my sites
11:00 pm - sleep
Guitarist26
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Master Don Juan
Monday: remember not to make a schedule (like some over-organised loser with too much time on his hands).
Rest of the week: Flame people who do
ethnomethodologist
Master Don Juan
If I didn't know better, I thought u were going to say you closed her right there
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.