"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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a decent way to ask for a number

Junaid

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ok well as u all probably know by now u should never ASK for a number but gently command her to do so

i use a method that i dont believe has ever failed me (although only has been used about 10 times) and hasnt been mentioned in the forum (atleast i dont think it has)

ok well after talking to a girl when u want to ask her for her number simply take out ur cell, go to ur phonebook and go to the "add new" or w/e it is on ur phone and when it asks u for the number of the new contact simply hand ur phone over to her and tell her to put in her number and voila uv got her number :)
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Junaid

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really.. sry i never saw it .. (i am a new member after all)
 

Fash

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mmmm it is smooth, and it will work... but what has been your flake rate???

I think it will have a high flake rate IMO.

Here is one I use:

I've enjoyed the conversation, I gotta get back to my friends, but we should continue this conversation sometime, i'm intrigued!

HB: sure, why you dont take my number...

Done.
 

Junaid

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ya thats a good one cause u sorta dont ask lol. so if she gives it u no it wont flake

hmm my flake rate i think has been good but i think im just lucky lol
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Junaid

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na im bsing the flake isnt bad but its prob cause well im 17 and i most of the time i ask a girl i will undoubtly see her again (shes in a class or w/e) so i guess they dont want to flake as much

they do however not return calls sometimes >< but i dont call the girls who i currently have numbers of much. mostly cause my current friend-girls ... suck or we have a ljbf relationship (which is why im on this site...)

anyway just tryin to give after recieving alot u no?
 

LegendBoy

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There are 3 scenarios from this

a) She gives you the number and your phone
b) No number and your phone
c) You don't get your phone because she sprints off


I was thinking about doing it this way, I think it would be fairly effective.

I will try it out at school some time.
 
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