"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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a decent way to ask for a number

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ok well as u all probably know by now u should never ASK for a number but gently command her to do so

i use a method that i dont believe has ever failed me (although only has been used about 10 times) and hasnt been mentioned in the forum (atleast i dont think it has)

ok well after talking to a girl when u want to ask her for her number simply take out ur cell, go to ur phonebook and go to the "add new" or w/e it is on ur phone and when it asks u for the number of the new contact simply hand ur phone over to her and tell her to put in her number and voila uv got her number :)
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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really.. sry i never saw it .. (i am a new member after all)
 
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mmmm it is smooth, and it will work... but what has been your flake rate???

I think it will have a high flake rate IMO.

Here is one I use:

I've enjoyed the conversation, I gotta get back to my friends, but we should continue this conversation sometime, i'm intrigued!

HB: sure, why you dont take my number...

Done.
 
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ya thats a good one cause u sorta dont ask lol. so if she gives it u no it wont flake

hmm my flake rate i think has been good but i think im just lucky lol
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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na im bsing the flake isnt bad but its prob cause well im 17 and i most of the time i ask a girl i will undoubtly see her again (shes in a class or w/e) so i guess they dont want to flake as much

they do however not return calls sometimes >< but i dont call the girls who i currently have numbers of much. mostly cause my current friend-girls ... suck or we have a ljbf relationship (which is why im on this site...)

anyway just tryin to give after recieving alot u no?
 
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There are 3 scenarios from this

a) She gives you the number and your phone
b) No number and your phone
c) You don't get your phone because she sprints off


I was thinking about doing it this way, I think it would be fairly effective.

I will try it out at school some time.
 
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