"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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a decent way to ask for a number

Junaid

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ok well as u all probably know by now u should never ASK for a number but gently command her to do so

i use a method that i dont believe has ever failed me (although only has been used about 10 times) and hasnt been mentioned in the forum (atleast i dont think it has)

ok well after talking to a girl when u want to ask her for her number simply take out ur cell, go to ur phonebook and go to the "add new" or w/e it is on ur phone and when it asks u for the number of the new contact simply hand ur phone over to her and tell her to put in her number and voila uv got her number :)
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Junaid

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really.. sry i never saw it .. (i am a new member after all)
 

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mmmm it is smooth, and it will work... but what has been your flake rate???

I think it will have a high flake rate IMO.

Here is one I use:

I've enjoyed the conversation, I gotta get back to my friends, but we should continue this conversation sometime, i'm intrigued!

HB: sure, why you dont take my number...

Done.
 

Junaid

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ya thats a good one cause u sorta dont ask lol. so if she gives it u no it wont flake

hmm my flake rate i think has been good but i think im just lucky lol
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Junaid

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na im bsing the flake isnt bad but its prob cause well im 17 and i most of the time i ask a girl i will undoubtly see her again (shes in a class or w/e) so i guess they dont want to flake as much

they do however not return calls sometimes >< but i dont call the girls who i currently have numbers of much. mostly cause my current friend-girls ... suck or we have a ljbf relationship (which is why im on this site...)

anyway just tryin to give after recieving alot u no?
 

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There are 3 scenarios from this

a) She gives you the number and your phone
b) No number and your phone
c) You don't get your phone because she sprints off


I was thinking about doing it this way, I think it would be fairly effective.

I will try it out at school some time.
 
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