"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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There is a certain Youtube video that I came across recently which perfectly conveys what exactly is going through the mind of a really hot girl as soon as she goes into a Nightclub on any random given night...

It is from the comedic show titled College Humor

The video is called:

POV (Point of View) - Hot Girl
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nJNXCpfDrNo&feature=channel_page
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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WhtRbt

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That's an interesting video. So what would a great approach look like in that scenario? How would you get that girl?
 

r0cky

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WhtRbt said:
That's an interesting video. So what would a great approach look like in that scenario? How would you get that girl?
Its almost guaranteed that she will be with a friend, you'd open the friend while you ignore and neg the target.
 

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why? I'd just tell her i find her attractive and would like to find out more about her some other time. If she doesn't want it then It's her loss and you move to the next hb9-10. Of course you're going to say this as DJ as possible but i don't see why you'd have to ignore her just to get to her.

And talking to her friend would be out of politeness, cause you're not a dumbass jerk trying to screen her friend from the convo.
 

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Here's an idea:

How about you say something natural that wasn't rehearsed at all. I like the suggestion about talking to her about something you felt like talking about.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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