"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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There is a certain Youtube video that I came across recently which perfectly conveys what exactly is going through the mind of a really hot girl as soon as she goes into a Nightclub on any random given night...

It is from the comedic show titled College Humor

The video is called:

POV (Point of View) - Hot Girl
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nJNXCpfDrNo&feature=channel_page
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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That's an interesting video. So what would a great approach look like in that scenario? How would you get that girl?
 
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WhtRbt said:
That's an interesting video. So what would a great approach look like in that scenario? How would you get that girl?
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Its almost guaranteed that she will be with a friend, you'd open the friend while you ignore and neg the target.
 
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why? I'd just tell her i find her attractive and would like to find out more about her some other time. If she doesn't want it then It's her loss and you move to the next hb9-10. Of course you're going to say this as DJ as possible but i don't see why you'd have to ignore her just to get to her.

And talking to her friend would be out of politeness, cause you're not a dumbass jerk trying to screen her friend from the convo.
 
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Here's an idea:

How about you say something natural that wasn't rehearsed at all. I like the suggestion about talking to her about something you felt like talking about.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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