"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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There is a certain Youtube video that I came across recently which perfectly conveys what exactly is going through the mind of a really hot girl as soon as she goes into a Nightclub on any random given night...

It is from the comedic show titled College Humor

The video is called:

POV (Point of View) - Hot Girl
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nJNXCpfDrNo&feature=channel_page
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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That's an interesting video. So what would a great approach look like in that scenario? How would you get that girl?
 
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WhtRbt said:
That's an interesting video. So what would a great approach look like in that scenario? How would you get that girl?
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Its almost guaranteed that she will be with a friend, you'd open the friend while you ignore and neg the target.
 
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why? I'd just tell her i find her attractive and would like to find out more about her some other time. If she doesn't want it then It's her loss and you move to the next hb9-10. Of course you're going to say this as DJ as possible but i don't see why you'd have to ignore her just to get to her.

And talking to her friend would be out of politeness, cause you're not a dumbass jerk trying to screen her friend from the convo.
 
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Here's an idea:

How about you say something natural that wasn't rehearsed at all. I like the suggestion about talking to her about something you felt like talking about.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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