"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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A day in the life of an HB9...

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There is a certain Youtube video that I came across recently which perfectly conveys what exactly is going through the mind of a really hot girl as soon as she goes into a Nightclub on any random given night...

It is from the comedic show titled College Humor

The video is called:

POV (Point of View) - Hot Girl
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nJNXCpfDrNo&feature=channel_page
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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WhtRbt

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That's an interesting video. So what would a great approach look like in that scenario? How would you get that girl?
 

r0cky

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WhtRbt said:
That's an interesting video. So what would a great approach look like in that scenario? How would you get that girl?
Its almost guaranteed that she will be with a friend, you'd open the friend while you ignore and neg the target.
 

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why? I'd just tell her i find her attractive and would like to find out more about her some other time. If she doesn't want it then It's her loss and you move to the next hb9-10. Of course you're going to say this as DJ as possible but i don't see why you'd have to ignore her just to get to her.

And talking to her friend would be out of politeness, cause you're not a dumbass jerk trying to screen her friend from the convo.
 

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Here's an idea:

How about you say something natural that wasn't rehearsed at all. I like the suggestion about talking to her about something you felt like talking about.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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