"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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A Dating Guide on How to LOSE the Girl Of Your Dreams?!?

Don 'Ron

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Hey, check this out: I have a blog on xanga.com that I use as my online journal. Today, I was looking through other people's blogs out of boredom and came across this:

www.xanga.com/mrnonjuan

There's this guy that calls himself "Mr. Non Juan," and he has this book he wrote that's a guide on how to make women NOT like you, or something like that. He has the whole first chapter of the book posted on his blog - and it's actually pretty good! It's almost like reading David DeAngelo's stuff, only backwards.

Have you guys ever heard of this guy? Check out the link, and read the chapter he has posted - it's about how being a nice guy is a "good" way to lose women. I thought it was hilarious, but I'd like to see what you guys think, or if you've seen his stuff before :confused:
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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This no doubt makes alot of sense:

"Guess what? Women are the same way when it comes to choosing men! They spend all day long being hit on by “bad boys,” "jerks," and other sex-starved male creatures. After a while, these types of guys become the norm for them. So when a Non-Juan comes along and advertises he is “different from all the other guys” she has ever dealt with, her mind automatically goes into suspicion mode: “There’s no way he can be that much different from other guys,” she thinks to herself. “He can’t possibly be THAT nice – he must be lying to me. I think I’ll go over to this OTHER guy instead – I mean, I know he put his LAST girlfriend in a coma, but he won’t do that to ME!!”"

Especially for those LSE girls.
 

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I'm sorry, but what is LSE mean? I don't think I was ever told what that ment.
 

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Low Self Esteem
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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A dating Guide on Haw to LOSE the Girl of Your Dreams

i already got this down......don't need any help there
 

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SDBmania

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Originally posted by tmpgstx
Low Self Esteem
Ah ok that makes sense thanks!
 

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Thanks for the link, Brother AP! I checked out his website, this dude is hilarious! He also has a book he's selling on ebay called "Pimp to Wimp: The Non-Juan's Guide to Losing the Girl of Your Dreams." I liked the first chapter, and am thinking about buying it... has anyone here bought or read the whole book yet?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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