"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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A Dating Guide on How to LOSE the Girl Of Your Dreams?!?

Don 'Ron

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Hey, check this out: I have a blog on xanga.com that I use as my online journal. Today, I was looking through other people's blogs out of boredom and came across this:

www.xanga.com/mrnonjuan

There's this guy that calls himself "Mr. Non Juan," and he has this book he wrote that's a guide on how to make women NOT like you, or something like that. He has the whole first chapter of the book posted on his blog - and it's actually pretty good! It's almost like reading David DeAngelo's stuff, only backwards.

Have you guys ever heard of this guy? Check out the link, and read the chapter he has posted - it's about how being a nice guy is a "good" way to lose women. I thought it was hilarious, but I'd like to see what you guys think, or if you've seen his stuff before :confused:
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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This no doubt makes alot of sense:

"Guess what? Women are the same way when it comes to choosing men! They spend all day long being hit on by “bad boys,” "jerks," and other sex-starved male creatures. After a while, these types of guys become the norm for them. So when a Non-Juan comes along and advertises he is “different from all the other guys” she has ever dealt with, her mind automatically goes into suspicion mode: “There’s no way he can be that much different from other guys,” she thinks to herself. “He can’t possibly be THAT nice – he must be lying to me. I think I’ll go over to this OTHER guy instead – I mean, I know he put his LAST girlfriend in a coma, but he won’t do that to ME!!”"

Especially for those LSE girls.
 

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I'm sorry, but what is LSE mean? I don't think I was ever told what that ment.
 

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Low Self Esteem
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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A dating Guide on Haw to LOSE the Girl of Your Dreams

i already got this down......don't need any help there
 

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Originally posted by tmpgstx
Low Self Esteem
Ah ok that makes sense thanks!
 

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Thanks for the link, Brother AP! I checked out his website, this dude is hilarious! He also has a book he's selling on ebay called "Pimp to Wimp: The Non-Juan's Guide to Losing the Girl of Your Dreams." I liked the first chapter, and am thinking about buying it... has anyone here bought or read the whole book yet?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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