"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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A dating app for single parents

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Another OLD app owned by Match Group. Looks like they launched it themselves instead of buying it, which is their normal strategy.

Stir, a dating app designed specifically for single parents, was launched by Match Group on March 21, 2022. The launch date coincided with US National Single Parents Day, emphasizing the app's focus on providing a dating platform tailored to the needs of single parents.

I wasn’t aware of their existence, it’s probably already overrun, might've been good when it launched. It’s probably using the same tech as Tinder and Bumble, based on ELO scores etc.

I’m going to load the free version and poke around, I’ll report back. If you have any experiences using it please comment.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Hi Pierce,
Good spotting....Seems like a digital version of what we called back in the day,Parents without Partners...or PWP which we thought an acronym for Parents without Pants LOL.
 

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Stir sounds promising for single parents, especially with its tailored approach. It's neat they launched it on National Single Parents Day, shows they're really catering to the audience. And yeah, it's likely using similar tech to Tinder and Bumble, which could mean a familiar interface for users.

Back when I was exploring dating apps, I had a great experience using Adult Friend Finder to find a hookup. It was straightforward to use and had a lot of active users in my area.
 
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It's probably more ruthless than regular dating apps, as every woman will be "over the games"

i.e. looking for a provider

When I get to hell, there will no doubt be a single mom grilling me on my qualifications
 
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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Sounds like more single Mom's looking for d!ck but claiming they aren't.

Until you start talking to them and they tell you how they havent been fvcked in over a year or sometimes 2 or 3 years.
 

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Sounds like more single Mom's looking for d!ck but claiming they aren't.

Until you start talking to them and they tell you how they havent been fvcked in over a year or sometimes 2 or 3 years.
Single suburban moms want the d1ck but they’ll disguise it in a relationship that they’ll fend off from becoming a second marriage as long as they can. Suburban moms likely won’t sleep around like they did prior to kids.

One caveat- if that mom commutes far enough into a densely enough populated area for work, she will wh0re out, like this woman Trish whose riding the pony in midtown manhattan while playing stepford mom in westchester. I could hit it but I don’t want to pay for a hotel room to bang some mid 40’s lush who thought I was the guy from the gym in first text. lol.
 

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Single suburban moms want the d1ck but they’ll disguise it in a relationship that they’ll fend off from becoming a second marriage as long as they can. Suburban moms likely won’t sleep around like they did prior to kids.

One caveat- if that mom commutes far enough into a densely enough populated area for work, she will wh0re out, like this woman Trish whose riding the pony in midtown manhattan while playing stepford mom in westchester. I could hit it but I don’t want to pay for a hotel room to bang some mid 40’s lush who thought I was the guy from the gym in first text. lol.
Most of the time they will say that until they start liking you and you get them hot and bothered enough and then it all changes and they ride your c0ck like a caged lionness.

Effectively they are trying to protect them from themselves when they say that, hoping guys who just want to fvck will be scared off because they know they won't be able to control themselves.
 
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