"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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A dating app for single parents

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Another OLD app owned by Match Group. Looks like they launched it themselves instead of buying it, which is their normal strategy.

Stir, a dating app designed specifically for single parents, was launched by Match Group on March 21, 2022. The launch date coincided with US National Single Parents Day, emphasizing the app's focus on providing a dating platform tailored to the needs of single parents.

I wasn’t aware of their existence, it’s probably already overrun, might've been good when it launched. It’s probably using the same tech as Tinder and Bumble, based on ELO scores etc.

I’m going to load the free version and poke around, I’ll report back. If you have any experiences using it please comment.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Hi Pierce,
Good spotting....Seems like a digital version of what we called back in the day,Parents without Partners...or PWP which we thought an acronym for Parents without Pants LOL.
 

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Stir sounds promising for single parents, especially with its tailored approach. It's neat they launched it on National Single Parents Day, shows they're really catering to the audience. And yeah, it's likely using similar tech to Tinder and Bumble, which could mean a familiar interface for users.

Back when I was exploring dating apps, I had a great experience using Adult Friend Finder to find a hookup. It was straightforward to use and had a lot of active users in my area.
 
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It's probably more ruthless than regular dating apps, as every woman will be "over the games"

i.e. looking for a provider

When I get to hell, there will no doubt be a single mom grilling me on my qualifications
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Sounds like more single Mom's looking for d!ck but claiming they aren't.

Until you start talking to them and they tell you how they havent been fvcked in over a year or sometimes 2 or 3 years.
 

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Sounds like more single Mom's looking for d!ck but claiming they aren't.

Until you start talking to them and they tell you how they havent been fvcked in over a year or sometimes 2 or 3 years.
Single suburban moms want the d1ck but they’ll disguise it in a relationship that they’ll fend off from becoming a second marriage as long as they can. Suburban moms likely won’t sleep around like they did prior to kids.

One caveat- if that mom commutes far enough into a densely enough populated area for work, she will wh0re out, like this woman Trish whose riding the pony in midtown manhattan while playing stepford mom in westchester. I could hit it but I don’t want to pay for a hotel room to bang some mid 40’s lush who thought I was the guy from the gym in first text. lol.
 

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Single suburban moms want the d1ck but they’ll disguise it in a relationship that they’ll fend off from becoming a second marriage as long as they can. Suburban moms likely won’t sleep around like they did prior to kids.

One caveat- if that mom commutes far enough into a densely enough populated area for work, she will wh0re out, like this woman Trish whose riding the pony in midtown manhattan while playing stepford mom in westchester. I could hit it but I don’t want to pay for a hotel room to bang some mid 40’s lush who thought I was the guy from the gym in first text. lol.
Most of the time they will say that until they start liking you and you get them hot and bothered enough and then it all changes and they ride your c0ck like a caged lionness.

Effectively they are trying to protect them from themselves when they say that, hoping guys who just want to fvck will be scared off because they know they won't be able to control themselves.
 
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