"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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A couple small tricks.

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I noticed a small series tricks to meeting women.

For the woman who thinks she's hot stuff:

(This is not for clubs or bars. This is for the conventional places such as college, bookstores, malls, etc.)

Step 1: Let it be known that you notice them. Once your eyes meet, the game begins.
Step 2: Give her a smile, and then go back to what you were doing (come prepared with something to do), as though you aren't really all that concerned about her. (If she's really hot, then this will bother her, because she's used to the attention.)
Step 3: If she comes near (if the circumstance makes it so) then randomly say "So what's your name?" (this got my friend his girlfriend)
Step 4: Introduction, but not too formal. Don't go out of your way to compliment her, she's probably used to it. If you do, don't let it be anything like, "You're beautiful," or "You're gorgeous." Let it be something subtle.

After this, you're in the game.

Now, I'm no expert, but these couple of tricks have done me some justice.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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If you feild tested it. Props to you
 

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Thanks. It has been tested a couple times.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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step 2: she might think that you didnt dare to go straight to her and talk inmediately...
not a good idea...it would be better to get close... say a "neg hit", and then...go do some other stuff

step 3: it's no so original to say "what's your name"...that's what would say 99 percent
of the guys that alllll the time go to talk to her...I like more the "congratulations" technique... or whatever funny and stupid...

i dont like the idea...

sorry for the grammar...
 

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What you say to her depends on the situation. I'll usually throw a "hey there" if I'm in a book store, or better yet "how many times can you walk by me without saying anything?" A bit of humor, but not enough to be entertaining, just a slight tease. Its tasteful, as long as you have something else to say.
 

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Step 3: I think that your step 3 is a little bit too conventional. I always think it is better to open with something witty and/or funny. I usually get more success that way.

My step 3 is field tested; but if yours works for you, then more power to you, we each gotta have ourown way of doing things *thumbs up*
 

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True Heizen, either one works. But on the gorgeous ****y girls, the best I've known to work is, "So what's your name?" Then again, a witty comment has a lot of strength, so "do what thou wilt" and it shall get you places. *thumbs up back atcha*
 
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