"Blank Mind on Dates? She's Dropping Hints You Keep Missing"

The plates get cleared and the silence lands like a brick. You can feel her waiting. Your brain offers up your commute, your job, the weather — topics that have ended more second dates than bad breath.

Here's what most guys never learn: women hand out free conversational material all night long. Tiny clues about what they actually want to discuss. Catch them and you never run out of things to say — because she's telling you what to say next.

Rule 4 of the "22 Rules" trains your ear to catch every single one.

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A couple small tricks.

HuangBei

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I noticed a small series tricks to meeting women.

For the woman who thinks she's hot stuff:

(This is not for clubs or bars. This is for the conventional places such as college, bookstores, malls, etc.)

Step 1: Let it be known that you notice them. Once your eyes meet, the game begins.
Step 2: Give her a smile, and then go back to what you were doing (come prepared with something to do), as though you aren't really all that concerned about her. (If she's really hot, then this will bother her, because she's used to the attention.)
Step 3: If she comes near (if the circumstance makes it so) then randomly say "So what's your name?" (this got my friend his girlfriend)
Step 4: Introduction, but not too formal. Don't go out of your way to compliment her, she's probably used to it. If you do, don't let it be anything like, "You're beautiful," or "You're gorgeous." Let it be something subtle.

After this, you're in the game.

Now, I'm no expert, but these couple of tricks have done me some justice.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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If you feild tested it. Props to you
 

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Thanks. It has been tested a couple times.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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step 2: she might think that you didnt dare to go straight to her and talk inmediately...
not a good idea...it would be better to get close... say a "neg hit", and then...go do some other stuff

step 3: it's no so original to say "what's your name"...that's what would say 99 percent
of the guys that alllll the time go to talk to her...I like more the "congratulations" technique... or whatever funny and stupid...

i dont like the idea...

sorry for the grammar...
 

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What you say to her depends on the situation. I'll usually throw a "hey there" if I'm in a book store, or better yet "how many times can you walk by me without saying anything?" A bit of humor, but not enough to be entertaining, just a slight tease. Its tasteful, as long as you have something else to say.
 

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Step 3: I think that your step 3 is a little bit too conventional. I always think it is better to open with something witty and/or funny. I usually get more success that way.

My step 3 is field tested; but if yours works for you, then more power to you, we each gotta have ourown way of doing things *thumbs up*
 

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True Heizen, either one works. But on the gorgeous ****y girls, the best I've known to work is, "So what's your name?" Then again, a witty comment has a lot of strength, so "do what thou wilt" and it shall get you places. *thumbs up back atcha*
 
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