"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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A Couple of Questions

Voyager

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Okay, I'm working on becoming a DJ, but there are a couple of questions that I need answered before I can proceed.

1. There are a couple of girls I am interested in my various classes. The problem is, I have little, if any, chance of striking up a conversation because of where I sit. I feel uncomfortable with the idea of randomly walking across the classroom to speak with a girl that I barely know. Should I do it anyway? Or is there some other option that I missed?

2. Because I would meet the girls in my classes on a daily basis, how can I make sure that I don't fall into the friend category? How can I test to see if I already did?

Thank You!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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davester88

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I normally have the same problem, but I learned to just give themk body language from accross the room. Just a sly smile and a wink will suffice.

2. Simply flirt with all the girls you can, even the ugly ones, be nice to everyone.
 

Ian Gots Game

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Yeah man, just go across the room and talk to them, what's the matter? Or catch them after class, you exit the same door.
 

gravstar

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u shuld try and walk over to them but hav a reason like asking an answer for a question, then string it on from there. they shuld start to get the hint that your interested if you do it often.
 

G_Nice_06

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OK, you should just go up to her in the hallway and start talkin to her. since you don't really know her talk about something you have in common (like the class you're in together) then after that start talkin about somethin completly different but still interesting.:up:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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The-Sultan

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Ask them for help in some of ur school work.
 
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