"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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A Couple of Questions

Voyager

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Okay, I'm working on becoming a DJ, but there are a couple of questions that I need answered before I can proceed.

1. There are a couple of girls I am interested in my various classes. The problem is, I have little, if any, chance of striking up a conversation because of where I sit. I feel uncomfortable with the idea of randomly walking across the classroom to speak with a girl that I barely know. Should I do it anyway? Or is there some other option that I missed?

2. Because I would meet the girls in my classes on a daily basis, how can I make sure that I don't fall into the friend category? How can I test to see if I already did?

Thank You!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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davester88

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I normally have the same problem, but I learned to just give themk body language from accross the room. Just a sly smile and a wink will suffice.

2. Simply flirt with all the girls you can, even the ugly ones, be nice to everyone.
 

Ian Gots Game

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Yeah man, just go across the room and talk to them, what's the matter? Or catch them after class, you exit the same door.
 

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u shuld try and walk over to them but hav a reason like asking an answer for a question, then string it on from there. they shuld start to get the hint that your interested if you do it often.
 

G_Nice_06

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OK, you should just go up to her in the hallway and start talkin to her. since you don't really know her talk about something you have in common (like the class you're in together) then after that start talkin about somethin completly different but still interesting.:up:
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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The-Sultan

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Ask them for help in some of ur school work.
 
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