"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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A Couple of Questions

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Okay, I'm working on becoming a DJ, but there are a couple of questions that I need answered before I can proceed.

1. There are a couple of girls I am interested in my various classes. The problem is, I have little, if any, chance of striking up a conversation because of where I sit. I feel uncomfortable with the idea of randomly walking across the classroom to speak with a girl that I barely know. Should I do it anyway? Or is there some other option that I missed?

2. Because I would meet the girls in my classes on a daily basis, how can I make sure that I don't fall into the friend category? How can I test to see if I already did?

Thank You!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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davester88

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I normally have the same problem, but I learned to just give themk body language from accross the room. Just a sly smile and a wink will suffice.

2. Simply flirt with all the girls you can, even the ugly ones, be nice to everyone.
 

Ian Gots Game

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Yeah man, just go across the room and talk to them, what's the matter? Or catch them after class, you exit the same door.
 

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u shuld try and walk over to them but hav a reason like asking an answer for a question, then string it on from there. they shuld start to get the hint that your interested if you do it often.
 

G_Nice_06

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OK, you should just go up to her in the hallway and start talkin to her. since you don't really know her talk about something you have in common (like the class you're in together) then after that start talkin about somethin completly different but still interesting.:up:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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The-Sultan

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Ask them for help in some of ur school work.
 
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