"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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a cool visualization excersize before bed..

Street_Fighter

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Before bed, to calm your mind and to redirect your attention.Visualize as in much detail as you can,a beautifull girl- anyone you like,but invision her in a complete state of attraction towards you.Flushed cheeks,pupils dialated,smile from ear to ear,those peircing eyes and lucious lips,imagine her radiating with sheer sexual energy and lustfullness towards you.Just visualize it as in much visual detail and acuity as much as possible,fine tune it,perfect it,replay it ,tweak it..if you do it right it should put you right to sleep (always does for me anyways)

It's a cool way to not only put you to sleep but fill your mind with pleasant images prior to retiring the day.I feel as if it puts me at ease,mellows me out and just calming in general.

And we all know we automaticly attract into our lives what we image and think about most :cool:
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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You'll probably make yourself have dreams about this girl you imagine up. Could be a good thing, could be a bad thing.
 

sam3083

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Sounds like a nice way to get oneitis.
However, the fact that she is all flushed and whatever makes it okay, because it reminds you that you are in complete control and the man
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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if you really hit many angles of self-help and personal development, you'll find that this is actually solid advice
 

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Anyone who knows anything about success techniques knows that visualization is a very powerful tool. I can really use more of this technique. I think, alongside what you suggested, is that I would visualize myself doing, and saying the right things, and just seeing myself as truly successful, and a true DJ.

"As a Man thinketh, so is he."
 
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