"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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a cool visualization excersize before bed..

Street_Fighter

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Before bed, to calm your mind and to redirect your attention.Visualize as in much detail as you can,a beautifull girl- anyone you like,but invision her in a complete state of attraction towards you.Flushed cheeks,pupils dialated,smile from ear to ear,those peircing eyes and lucious lips,imagine her radiating with sheer sexual energy and lustfullness towards you.Just visualize it as in much visual detail and acuity as much as possible,fine tune it,perfect it,replay it ,tweak it..if you do it right it should put you right to sleep (always does for me anyways)

It's a cool way to not only put you to sleep but fill your mind with pleasant images prior to retiring the day.I feel as if it puts me at ease,mellows me out and just calming in general.

And we all know we automaticly attract into our lives what we image and think about most :cool:
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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You'll probably make yourself have dreams about this girl you imagine up. Could be a good thing, could be a bad thing.
 

sam3083

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Sounds like a nice way to get oneitis.
However, the fact that she is all flushed and whatever makes it okay, because it reminds you that you are in complete control and the man
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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if you really hit many angles of self-help and personal development, you'll find that this is actually solid advice
 

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Anyone who knows anything about success techniques knows that visualization is a very powerful tool. I can really use more of this technique. I think, alongside what you suggested, is that I would visualize myself doing, and saying the right things, and just seeing myself as truly successful, and a true DJ.

"As a Man thinketh, so is he."
 
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