"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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a cool visualization excersize before bed..

Street_Fighter

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Before bed, to calm your mind and to redirect your attention.Visualize as in much detail as you can,a beautifull girl- anyone you like,but invision her in a complete state of attraction towards you.Flushed cheeks,pupils dialated,smile from ear to ear,those peircing eyes and lucious lips,imagine her radiating with sheer sexual energy and lustfullness towards you.Just visualize it as in much visual detail and acuity as much as possible,fine tune it,perfect it,replay it ,tweak it..if you do it right it should put you right to sleep (always does for me anyways)

It's a cool way to not only put you to sleep but fill your mind with pleasant images prior to retiring the day.I feel as if it puts me at ease,mellows me out and just calming in general.

And we all know we automaticly attract into our lives what we image and think about most :cool:
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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You'll probably make yourself have dreams about this girl you imagine up. Could be a good thing, could be a bad thing.
 

sam3083

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Sounds like a nice way to get oneitis.
However, the fact that she is all flushed and whatever makes it okay, because it reminds you that you are in complete control and the man
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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if you really hit many angles of self-help and personal development, you'll find that this is actually solid advice
 

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Anyone who knows anything about success techniques knows that visualization is a very powerful tool. I can really use more of this technique. I think, alongside what you suggested, is that I would visualize myself doing, and saying the right things, and just seeing myself as truly successful, and a true DJ.

"As a Man thinketh, so is he."
 
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