"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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On the site, i read many articles explaining how girls love variation and guys that are different, but thats not the case at my school. Here, the hottest girls go for baseball player guys who all dress EXACTLY the same. Why is this? These guys don't have any exceptionaly talking skills or anything yet they get all the chicks.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Haha welcome to the real world!

Do you by any chance go to a private school?

Anyways, I have that same problem. You are not alone. I color coordinate my clothes, so therefore at my school I'm a "thug". I don't like the label but at the same time I don't really care. The girls I like all like those Abercrombie and Hollister crap. The girl i like even told me I should wear Hollister instead of being a "ghetto thug".

I seriously am not sure what to do sometimes. I have like 7 pairs of shoes, and I don't know what to do because if I have more than one, I'm a thug. I'm lost.

But as far as girls are concerned, just show confidence and that **** about baseball flies out the window. Just give it some time. Hanging out with them wouldn't hurt either.
 
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Because they are the coolest kids ever and you're not cooler than them so they aren't going for you!!!!111eleven!11!
 
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"Because they are the coolest kids ever and you're not cooler than them so they aren't going for you!!!!111eleven!11!"



I bet you're trying to be funny right? Well hahahahahahaha! There, you got a laugh, feel like you accomplished something 2day?
 
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In all honesty, maybe the girls have fun with these guys. Maybe these guys show the girls a good time after school. Come on now, any number of reasons not worth even thinking about.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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