Haha welcome to the real world!
Do you by any chance go to a private school?
Anyways, I have that same problem. You are not alone. I color coordinate my clothes, so therefore at my school I'm a "thug". I don't like the label but at the same time I don't really care. The girls I like all like those Abercrombie and Hollister crap. The girl i like even told me I should wear Hollister instead of being a "ghetto thug".
I seriously am not sure what to do sometimes. I have like 7 pairs of shoes, and I don't know what to do because if I have more than one, I'm a thug. I'm lost.
But as far as girls are concerned, just show confidence and that **** about baseball flies out the window. Just give it some time. Hanging out with them wouldn't hurt either.