"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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A Confrontation.

Maeisgood

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If you really like a girl and cannot get her out of your mind, and she's taken already, what happens if you tell her how you feel? I'm just curious, it seems needy and wussy to me. I often hear how they wish we would be more open but that seems to contradict the DJ philosophy. At this point I want her to just leave me alone so I can recover and move on. High school's over for me. There's no more hope.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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by not having 4 posts authored by you in the top 9.
 

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This is the only way to find information. I can't trust anyone from home. If I ask they'll make fun of me and here everyones anonymous which helps a lot. Everyone else's post is on specific senarios. I just want some things cleared up that are never taught to you, its just understood as common knowledge and unwritten rules that are shameful to ask in real life.
 

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That is for you to find out yourself and see the reaction of the girl and perhaps her boyfriend o_O which maybe you dont want to find out that reaction
i mean, its not that hard to tell if the girl is b1tchy or understanding or overreactant

man, highschool aint over for you less you graduating. theres still plenty of girls out there for you.

hmm.... if you have a understanding friend that can keep secrets. you can tell him/her.

I dunno what i just typed. so hopefully these will help. :D
 
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