If you really like a girl and cannot get her out of your mind, and she's taken already, what happens if you tell her how you feel? I'm just curious, it seems needy and wussy to me. I often hear how they wish we would be more open but that seems to contradict the DJ philosophy. At this point I want her to just leave me alone so I can recover and move on. High school's over for me. There's no more hope.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
A Confrontation.
- Thread starter Maeisgood
- Start date
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
This is the only way to find information. I can't trust anyone from home. If I ask they'll make fun of me and here everyones anonymous which helps a lot. Everyone else's post is on specific senarios. I just want some things cleared up that are never taught to you, its just understood as common knowledge and unwritten rules that are shameful to ask in real life.
That is for you to find out yourself and see the reaction of the girl and perhaps her boyfriend 
which maybe you dont want to find out that reaction
i mean, its not that hard to tell if the girl is b1tchy or understanding or overreactant
man, highschool aint over for you less you graduating. theres still plenty of girls out there for you.
hmm.... if you have a understanding friend that can keep secrets. you can tell him/her.
I dunno what i just typed. so hopefully these will help.
which maybe you dont want to find out that reactioni mean, its not that hard to tell if the girl is b1tchy or understanding or overreactant
man, highschool aint over for you less you graduating. theres still plenty of girls out there for you.
hmm.... if you have a understanding friend that can keep secrets. you can tell him/her.
I dunno what i just typed. so hopefully these will help.