If you really like a girl and cannot get her out of your mind, and she's taken already, what happens if you tell her how you feel? I'm just curious, it seems needy and wussy to me. I often hear how they wish we would be more open but that seems to contradict the DJ philosophy. At this point I want her to just leave me alone so I can recover and move on. High school's over for me. There's no more hope.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
A Confrontation.
- Thread starter Maeisgood
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
This is the only way to find information. I can't trust anyone from home. If I ask they'll make fun of me and here everyones anonymous which helps a lot. Everyone else's post is on specific senarios. I just want some things cleared up that are never taught to you, its just understood as common knowledge and unwritten rules that are shameful to ask in real life.
That is for you to find out yourself and see the reaction of the girl and perhaps her boyfriend 
which maybe you dont want to find out that reaction
i mean, its not that hard to tell if the girl is b1tchy or understanding or overreactant
man, highschool aint over for you less you graduating. theres still plenty of girls out there for you.
hmm.... if you have a understanding friend that can keep secrets. you can tell him/her.
I dunno what i just typed. so hopefully these will help.
which maybe you dont want to find out that reactioni mean, its not that hard to tell if the girl is b1tchy or understanding or overreactant
man, highschool aint over for you less you graduating. theres still plenty of girls out there for you.
hmm.... if you have a understanding friend that can keep secrets. you can tell him/her.
I dunno what i just typed. so hopefully these will help.