"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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A Common Trait Among Toxic Females

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You're having a conversation early on, and something is brought up to where she says "I cried." The detail of that doesn't have anything to do with what was previously said, and what they claimed to have cried to isn't very/supposed to be sad at all. If you or a person in the group doesn't respond to it, the girl will bring it up again, and say it louder but this time with a tone like "When Aladdin took Jasmine on the magic carpet I CRIED" or "My iPhone screen broke after I let it fall out of my purse for the 3rd time :cry: "

There are people who cry during movies/TV shows with emotional scenes, and there's nothing wrong with that. But what I've noticed is the females who tell people that are strangers to them that they cried tend to be very toxic people. It's like they want to convince you they aren't toxic by telling a likely made up detail of crying to something to make you think they're emotional.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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******** is a bad word that's why.

Now you get me thinking , 0P. Thinking of the two most toxic women I know yeah one has done what you said. I don't think the other one did though. Thanks for the tip definitely something to watch for.

Edit: sh|t Sideways I thought u were jokin. Blocked the same word for me lmao
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Gotta love the humor in the mod or site admin who made it a bad word:up:
 
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The swear filter here is rather laughable. A forum about having sex and they censor words about having sex, and for some odd reason w0manese.
 
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Zapp Brannigan said:
You're having a conversation early on, and something is brought up to where she says "I cried." The detail of that doesn't have anything to do with what was previously said, and what they claimed to have cried to isn't very/supposed to be sad at all. If you or a person in the group doesn't respond to it, the girl will bring it up again, and say it louder but this time with a tone like "When Aladdin took Jasmine on the magic carpet I CRIED" or "My iPhone screen broke after I let it fall out of my purse for the 3rd time :cry: "

There are people who cry during movies/TV shows with emotional scenes, and there's nothing wrong with that. But what I've noticed is the females who tell people that are strangers to them that they cried tend to be very toxic people. It's like they want to convince you they aren't toxic by telling a likely made up detail of crying to something to make you think they're emotional.
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Then I need help, all the women I seem to be f***ing about with these days are toxic people..oh my, help me :cry:

I cried.

this is wisdom Zapp Brannigan!!
 
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christoff522 said:
Then I need help, all the women I seem to be f***ing about with these days are toxic people..oh my, help me :cry:

I cried.

this is wisdom Zapp Brannigan!!
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That's so sad I cried..............wait no acknowledgement? I just told a complete stranger a detail of shedding crocodile tears to convince them I'm not a toxic predator posing as a house pet, let's try it again. I CRIED!!!! :cry: :cry: :cry:

Be careful with them.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Don't pay attention to what she says... only what she does. A woman that is demonstrably over emotional is a red flag. But the biggest red flag is absence of organization. .. time management problems. If her car looks like a rolling trash can or it takes her 5 minutes to find anything in her packed full purse... that is a good indication she is a mess in other aspects of her life.
 
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If her car looks like a rolling trash can or it takes her 5 minutes to find anything in her packed full purse... that is a good indication she is a mess in other aspects of her life.
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LMAO!
 
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