"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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A Common Trait Among Toxic Females

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You're having a conversation early on, and something is brought up to where she says "I cried." The detail of that doesn't have anything to do with what was previously said, and what they claimed to have cried to isn't very/supposed to be sad at all. If you or a person in the group doesn't respond to it, the girl will bring it up again, and say it louder but this time with a tone like "When Aladdin took Jasmine on the magic carpet I CRIED" or "My iPhone screen broke after I let it fall out of my purse for the 3rd time :cry: "

There are people who cry during movies/TV shows with emotional scenes, and there's nothing wrong with that. But what I've noticed is the females who tell people that are strangers to them that they cried tend to be very toxic people. It's like they want to convince you they aren't toxic by telling a likely made up detail of crying to something to make you think they're emotional.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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******** is a bad word that's why.

Now you get me thinking , 0P. Thinking of the two most toxic women I know yeah one has done what you said. I don't think the other one did though. Thanks for the tip definitely something to watch for.

Edit: sh|t Sideways I thought u were jokin. Blocked the same word for me lmao
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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_sideways_ said:
Big sister is watching



Gotta love the humor in the mod or site admin who made it a bad word:up:
 

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The swear filter here is rather laughable. A forum about having sex and they censor words about having sex, and for some odd reason w0manese.
 

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Zapp Brannigan said:
You're having a conversation early on, and something is brought up to where she says "I cried." The detail of that doesn't have anything to do with what was previously said, and what they claimed to have cried to isn't very/supposed to be sad at all. If you or a person in the group doesn't respond to it, the girl will bring it up again, and say it louder but this time with a tone like "When Aladdin took Jasmine on the magic carpet I CRIED" or "My iPhone screen broke after I let it fall out of my purse for the 3rd time :cry: "

There are people who cry during movies/TV shows with emotional scenes, and there's nothing wrong with that. But what I've noticed is the females who tell people that are strangers to them that they cried tend to be very toxic people. It's like they want to convince you they aren't toxic by telling a likely made up detail of crying to something to make you think they're emotional.
Then I need help, all the women I seem to be f***ing about with these days are toxic people..oh my, help me :cry:

I cried.

this is wisdom Zapp Brannigan!!
 

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christoff522 said:
Then I need help, all the women I seem to be f***ing about with these days are toxic people..oh my, help me :cry:

I cried.

this is wisdom Zapp Brannigan!!
That's so sad I cried..............wait no acknowledgement? I just told a complete stranger a detail of shedding crocodile tears to convince them I'm not a toxic predator posing as a house pet, let's try it again. I CRIED!!!! :cry: :cry: :cry:

Be careful with them.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Don't pay attention to what she says... only what she does. A woman that is demonstrably over emotional is a red flag. But the biggest red flag is absence of organization. .. time management problems. If her car looks like a rolling trash can or it takes her 5 minutes to find anything in her packed full purse... that is a good indication she is a mess in other aspects of her life.
 

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RangerMIke said:
If her car looks like a rolling trash can or it takes her 5 minutes to find anything in her packed full purse... that is a good indication she is a mess in other aspects of her life.
LMAO!
 
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