Plinco
Master Don Juan
some of you guys are taking women entirely way too seriously. That would be my advice to any newbie who has girl problems. Personally, I don't take women seriously unless it is business or family.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
A common problem that I see
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
And if business or family is attemting to disrupt you?
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Should them women we deal with cause alot of disruption or set backs? Are all women manipulative backstabbing haters?
Plinco
Master Don Juan
The principle here that I was trying to get to, is to be 100% of your own authority and not internalize the authority of anything or anyone else. Never let anything to circumvent your decision making ability.