Plinco
Master Don Juan
some of you guys are taking women entirely way too seriously. That would be my advice to any newbie who has girl problems. Personally, I don't take women seriously unless it is business or family.
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
A common problem that I see
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
And if business or family is attemting to disrupt you?
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Should them women we deal with cause alot of disruption or set backs? Are all women manipulative backstabbing haters?
Plinco
Master Don Juan
The principle here that I was trying to get to, is to be 100% of your own authority and not internalize the authority of anything or anyone else. Never let anything to circumvent your decision making ability.