A collection of women quotes about their feelings for men

[tesla8520]

Hey there,

Me and a friend have collected from 4 women in my circle some of the phrases that those, who have "tumultuous" relationship, publish on their social media as a form of "self-validation".
Those men actually share some characteristics: very arrogant, insecure, they raise their voice, at the same time that could look like irrationally confident, but those men all have the same issue: she is their weakness, so they kind of breakup or have frequent turmoil, then they come back to solve the issue, and get back togheter, because they can't go their way alone. And this kind of thing, which actually should be a weakness, is what women are considering "He can't really live without me = I'm important to him, and only".
As You may notice, those are not the ideal mature man that are described here in Sosuave, but still those men are actually making long term relationships with women, and kind of generating oneitis in them.


So here is the list we collected in 2 year of observation:

He makes me feel alive. Yeah, we argue, and sure, his impertinence drives me crazy sometimes, but when I'm with him, I feel complete. I feel like I can completely let my guard down and not have to worry about being hurt or taken advantage of, or even be afraid, because Garrett Graham will always be there to love and protect me.


You mean so much to me that I can't think, I can't even breathe, when we're together."


People who have never received love are the hardest to love."
"Why?" she asked softly. "Because they don't let themselves be loved. They shy away."


"What do you want me to tell you?" I raised my voice, losing my mind. "That I can't stop thinking about her? That I'm obsessed with her? That I want nothing more than to be with her all the time? That I know she's too beautiful, too young, too everything for me, but I don't care because I can't breathe without her?"


It was a ****ing risk, but that's life, a constant risk. You have to dare, stay in the water, and swim further and further. Always push your limits. I don't care what the rest of the world thinks. In life, you can be someone or blend in with the crowd; there's no middle ground.


I know nothing about feelings or relationships. But I'm starting to learn one thing: it doesn't have to be easy. It has to be all-encompassing, adventurous, passionate, disorienting, irrational, unconditional, crazy.


It was the tactic of the weak man, so insecure and jealous of his woman that he made her feel insecure, belittling her in the eyes of others, and we, women in love, would always fall for it. Because when you're in love, you see your life together, no matter how disgusting and sad it may be, through rose-colored, heart-shaped glasses. You can't freeze the frame and watch the movie you've made in your head as a spectator.


Take a risk and fall in love with a man for whom you're the cog that makes his world turn.


"If the right woman takes care of him, even the meanest man becomes good. Well, that's bull****. But we've been told it so well that we've all believed it, and when we meet an *******, we think we can save him. But real life doesn't end with happily ever after."

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Worrying about a what a woman thinks is an exercise in futility.

This is a great intro into how to be a simp. You could teach a class "How to become a Simp 101" with this content

 

[Aurora Demon]

What people say and what people do / how they truly feel are not always aligned.

 

[tesla8520]

I understand the phrase "Don't look at what she says, look at what she does" might be true, but if you're in a relationship with a woman and you always come home late at night, and she's cooked dinner, cleaned your clothes, and is ****1ng you (actions), but when you get home she's a total slam dunk, "You're late again tonight!!" and then continues, "If you keep this up, it's really not going to work out for us" (words), and then you have your wedding scheduled in 8 months (action), then would you really be happy to see how she behaves, taking the insults and the emotional drama, but their action to be positive?

Is it possible that women with low emotional drama don't exist?
Simply if you start going to the gym, they'll say, "Oh, have you found time for the gym now? Who's going to help me???" (words), but then at night before bed they want to f0ck because you've put on some muscle (actions).

Is this the normal behaviour ALL women have or something more of a cluster b?

 

[taiyuu_otoko]

"God Damn I need Some DIK!"

-some random ho

 

[The Duke]

I don't think the point of this is to worry about what a woman thinks. The point is this is what a tumultuous relationship looks like between two people seeking validation.

Is this normal, cluster b behavior? ....it doesn't have to be but it does exist and there is plenty of it out there. A lot of folks don't have the skills necessary to be successful. Just enough to maintain dysfunction. Fear and comfort keeps a lot of them together.

Figure out what you can deal with and what you can't from a woman. Eventually you will find one that meets your standards. But don't forget you need to meet a high and often rare standard as well.

 

[tesla8520]

A lot of folks don't have the skills necessary to be successful. Just enough to maintain dysfunction. Fear and comfort keeps a lot of them together.

I wonder if that is the long term relationship you look for

But don't forget you need to meet a high and often rare standard as well.

Which kind of are you referring to?